Wednesday, May 7, 2014

7 Ideas to Build Perseverance in Students

7 Ideas to Build Perseverance in Students
Several years ago, researchers from the U.S. traveled to Singapore to uncover why students there consistently scored in the top world rankings for math. (American students typically rank around 30 in the world rankings.)
What Singapore Teachers Teach…
As the researchers were in Singapore, they were looking for an amazing new solution they could bring back to U.S. schools. But instead of a grand key, they found that as Singapore students did their work, they were consistently reinforced with two ideas: attitude and perseverance. As a result, the researchers saw that students in Singapore were “willing and eager to tackle any problem the teacher gave them, without even a hint of complaint.”
As part of the researchers’ study, Singaporean teachers permitted an experiment. They grouped third graders into small groups and gave them a math problem from a higher-level workbook, which contained principles they hadn’t learned yet. Then, the teachers instructed the students to work on the problem as long as they needed. Immediately, their tenacity was apparent: “Not a single kid asked the teacher why they were given this difficult problem, or why the problem contained topics they had not covered.” Instead, they worked on the problem within their groups for over an hour, drawing models to help them figure out the steps to the solution. They worked until the teacher forced them to stop. Some groups had completed the problem, but all had at least uncovered a few correct steps. This showed the researchers how well “perseverance” was ingrained in these students.
Meanwhile, Back Home…
When the researchers arrived back in the U.S., they set up a similar experiment on American students, following the same steps they created in Singapore. The results, however, were drastically different. Whereas Singaporean students worked until they were forced to stop, American students on average spent only 34 seconds before proceeding to quit. They were quoted as saying, “I don’t get it,” “I’m done,” “This is too hard,” and “How do they expect us to know this?” As a result, researchers concluded that the attitude and perseverance of American students was almost nonexistent in comparison to Singaporean students.
What Causes American Kids to Give Up So Easily?
Let me venture to suggest a number of reasons why perseverance is down:
1. Instead of reinforcing tenacity, we make life convenient for our children. We have worked to remove (not embrace) difficulties, viewing them as negative.
2. They have an incorrect perception of what it takes to achieve great things. They watch highlight reels on SportsCenter, but never see the hours of practice athletes put in to be able to dunk a basketball or hit a curve ball.
3. All the answers they need are at their fingertips on a portable device. Instead of learning critical thinking skills, they ask Google. It’s an instant answer.
4. When solutions don’t come quickly, an adult (often a parent) swoops in to save the day. Their commitment muscle atrophies from disuse.


Does this speak to every American student? Of course not. Do we teach kids every day to work hard and struggle through their problems? Yes. But I’d be willing to bet that most teachers in the U.S., at any level of education, have seen this lack of perseverance in their classroom. It’s the kid who buys a new video game and can’t get past the first level after two minutes. Instead of working hard and long, he or she goes to the Internet to find a cheat code that will take him straight to level two with no effort at all. This is more the norm now than the exception.

From Tim Elmore & GrowingLeaders.com

Thursday, March 6, 2014

Branded: Think About This

Think About This
By Kristen Ivy, Elizabeth Hansen

I remember a few years ago when I was leading a small group and one of the girls had stopped attending. I knew she was making some unwise choices related to drinking, and she was choosing not to come to church anymore because she didn’t want to feel judged. But here’s the interesting thing: she still liked hanging out. We would meet from time to time, at Starbucks, at a school event,—anywhere that she knew we would have fun. And 
in those moments, I didn’t talk about her decisions. She knew what I thought. But I knew at that juncture in her life, it was more important to have fun and stay connected than to continue reminding her of something she already knew.
Hint: most kids and teenagers shut down when you take the eye-to-eye, “let’s talk about what’s going on” approach, they tend to talk when they’re engaged in a fun activity, not making eye contact, and feel in control of the agenda.
If you’re a parent, you may need to set aside time with your kids when you agree not to discuss their issues. This can be especially true if they are in a tough season of life. When the tension is high, you need a scheduled break—just to have fun together.
It’s not that fun is the most important thing. If you give teenagers words and stories that are boring, they may not care. If you belong to a tribe that never laughs, they won’t want to be a part of it.
So whatever you do this week,

make it fun.

Tuesday, February 25, 2014